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Talking About
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- by Sebastian Steele
I once told a girl that I was dating to come
over to my place and hang out. She said, so what do you want to do
today? I told her that I wanted her to come over and have sex, and
then we’d go out and do something fun. I couldn’t understand at the
time why she got upset with me, and subsequently didn’t want to come
over anymore after that.
Luckily, we’re still friends and I asked her
about this months later. I was shocked at what she told me.
She said that she DID
want to come over and have sex, but that I “cheapened” it by talking
about it directly. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing! “How could
telling you that I want to have sex with you cheapen the act of
doing it?”, I asked (quite angrily at that point).
She
went on to explain that when you want a girl to come over, and you
know that sex is going to happen, it’s better to speak in
implication, and refer to sex indirectly. “Well how do I do THAT,
and WHY should I have to?”
I asked… still pissed off, but very curious to discover
the answer.
She understood my
frustration, but reassured me that most women are like this. She
told me that if I want a girl to come over and have sex, that it’s a
LOT better to tell her that I’ve been thinking about her, and that I
miss her, and how I would love nothing more for her to come over
spend time with me. “Well that sounds like the same thing! I mean,
she KNOWS damn well that if she comes over to spend time, we’re
going to end up having sex. She KNOWS that, so why do I have to beat
around the bush and avoid mentioning it directly???”
I was so confused, but
also excited because her words did ring true for me. I realized then
that I had been going about things all wrong when I invited girls to
come over to my place. I realized that I made them feel cheap by
directly referring to our time together as a time for us to just
have sex. But if I simply told them that I wanted them to come over
and just be with me, and tell them that I miss them… it would make
them feel okay about it (even though they knew that sex was
inevitable).
So
remember, never indicate directly that you want her to come over for
sex. The sex is already ASSUMED, and therefore you don’t ever have
to bring it up.
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But when IS it okay to talk about sex?
Honestly, in my experience… if you want to talk about sex directly
with a woman, wait until you’ve been with them a few times in bed.
At that point, they are comfortable enough with you to talk openly
about such things, and they won’t feel like that’s ALL you want them
for.
Also, another
great time to talk about sex is right AFTER. Let me explain. You and
her just finished getting it on, and now you’re lying there with her
in your arms (if you are the kind of guy who just rolls over after
sex, you might want to rethink your strategy, because women really
get offended by that).
At that point, it’s a great opportunity to tell
her what a great lover she is, and what specifically you like the
most about her style of intimacy. Don’t just make shit up either. If
you can’t think of something that you can compliment her on, then
it’s time to switch partners… or start paying closer attention and
get to know the person you’re with a little better.
Okay, so to summarize… when you want a girl to
have sex with you, it’s better to imply it, and maybe refer to it
indirectly… but NEVER just come out and say it directly. I have
never met one woman who wants to feel like she’s being used for sex.
Make her feel special, and let her know that you want to spend time
with her for other things too, not just her vagina… and you will
have more sexual partners than you can handle. And now, YOU will be
in the position of choice when it comes to women.
You see, beautiful
women pretty much have their “pick of the litter” when it comes to
getting laid. They simply have more options than most guys do. But
by methodically building quality sexual relationships with women,
you will enjoy the same power and choice.
And a quick note about
ethics. Don’t imply that you want a romantic, committed relationship
with a woman in order to get into her panties. If you honestly want
one, that’s great. It’s much more satisfying… but don’t ever mislead
someone to believing that you’re interested in more than you really
are. It’s deceitful, and hurts everyone involved. Once you get good at being
a ladies man, you’ll realize that you never have to lie in order to
make women want to sleep with you. In fact, I have found that just
being myself and being honest about my sexual desires has gotten me
laid a LOT more than when I was bullshitting women into bed with
me.
Anyway, enough
about that. I’m not your mother, and you can make your own
decisions. I just want you to know that it’s been my experience that
being ethical is a lot more rewarding when it comes to being a
seducer. Some people think that seducing women means being dishonest
I’m here to tell you that nothing is further from the truth. When
you can make a woman feel really wonderful when she’s with you,
she’ll just naturally want to come back for more. You won’t have to
convince her, or chase after her. Trust me on this.
This article is a
short clip from my latest book, Simple Seducer - The most complete
guide to picking up women EVER written. If you enjoyed this article
then you should stop by my web site (
Simple
Seducer) and learn more about the
book... it may just be exactly what you've been looking
for!
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About The
Author
This article is a short clip from my latest
book, Simple Seducer - The most complete guide to picking up
women EVER written. If you enjoyed this article then you
should stop by my web site (
Simple
Seducer) and learn more about
the book... it may just be exactly what you've been looking
for!
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