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RECEPTIVE TO BLISS
Recreating Your Physical Body
The Second Key to Lovemaking Magic By Debora Myers
If you really want
to feel bliss in your life, learn to integrate balance into all
aspects of it. After all it is YOUR life! As you do that you can
incorporate these same balances into your sexual life. This fall and
winter I will give you an introduction to the Five Keys to Sexual
Bliss. We will use the five-pointed star of balance as our map.
The Five Keys to
Lovemaking Magic and Sexual Bliss: 1.
Creating an Environment that is a haven. 2.
Creating a Physical Body that is healthy and receptive. 3. Creating an uncluttered Mind. 4. Creating Emotional balance. 5. Creating a Spiritual connection to the
Creator
As we
know, our bodies reflect our thoughts, spirits, emotions and
physical environment. Actually, all of these aspects reflect off of
one another, so balancing the energy we place into these areas of
our lives will certainly give us a better chance at bliss. But how
many of us are still running on empty even though we know better?
What did you have for breakfast this morning? Did you get enough
sleep last night? Were you in such a hurry that you grabbed a cola
and cookies for lunch at 3:00 p.m.? Most of us know how to take care
of ourselves. The problem lies in "how much do you really care about
yourself" and how much effort will you go to for YOU? As women and
traditional nurturers we make sure our families are taken care of
but we tend to put ourselves at the bottom of the list. Yes, it is
important to take care of your loved ones but with that being said,
it is also imperative that we care for ourselves so that we can
continue on and actually love and enjoy ourselves, our lives and
those we love.
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Just as we can
program our subconscious minds to behave in certain ways, we also
can reprogram our bodies down to the cellular level. Example: I used
to have asthma. I didn't like becoming short of breath and I missed
swimming laps. I would wheeze and experience shortness of breath and
get light headed and dizzy whenever I exerted myself. This can be
quite distracting and embarrassing in the height of wild lovemaking,
(not so sexy either.)
I would also have to stop in the middle of an
exercise class to catch my breath. I started meditating in the steam
room of my gym. I would inhale deeply and visualize that steamy air
as healing blue light expanding and healing all those little air
sacs. After a week of that I started swimming underwater. I'd swim a
quarter of the length of the pool and eventually worked my way to
staying underwater and holding my breath for almost the entire
length of the pool. I visualized my lungs as healthy and fully
expanded and pink with oxygen. I don't wheeze any longer. It's
really nice to be able to run, make love and swim without having to
stop and gasp.
We
have to integrate the five aspects of ourselves together equally. It
isn't as simply as visualizing my lungs as healthy. I also don't
smoke, I eat foods that support my system, I exercise regularly and
I rest when I need to. I take the physical or third dimensional
steps needed to stay as health as I can. Here are a few reminders to
help you stay on the road to good physical health and for
integrating the third dimensional physical routines into your whole
existence.
Educate
yourself about wholesome foods and health. Marilu Henner has written
a wonderful series of healthy, whole-foods books packed with info
and delicious recipes. Check her out. 'Healthy Life Kitchen' She
knows what she is doing. Also Check out http://www.donlemmon.com he
offers help with exercise and nutrition with a no-nonsense approach.
Keep healthy and
simple foods in your home pantry and fridge. Willpower is needed
first at the store and second at home. Gently integrate your family
into your healthy food routine. Sometimes its way too difficult to
avoid all that junk food sitting there calling you ("that you bought
for them"). If your husband wants chips and soda and ice cream let
him go to the store and buy his own. It's likely that if it's not in
the house your family will opt for something else, rather than have
to put on their shoes and go out and buy it.
Anyway, you'll be
doing them a favor as well. Keep healthy alternatives readily
available. That doesn't mean you have to spend a lot of money at the
health food store. A big bowl of mixed fruit on the table and
wholesome muffins will be a much better alternative than junk and
easy to reach for. You don't have to be a great cook either. It
doesn't take a gourmet cook to prepare brown rice, pinto beans and
salad.
Let's face
reality: Tap water can contain many harmful elements and tastes
nasty. Keep purified water in your home and stop purchasing the
sugared/artificially flavored sweetened drinks. Drink water, teas
and juices. (Remember that "juice drinks" or juice cocktails are
just sugar-water with a splash of fruit juice added.) Why waste your
money? Eliminate soda, coffee and alcohol.
Exercise regularly
every day. Walk, ride your bike and incorporate some kind of
exercise ritual into your routine. Classes are a great way to
discipline yourself into a regular routine. Water aerobics, floor
aerobics, tennis, weight lifting, a women's basketball team…the list
goes on. No excuses! Too many people opt out of an exercise routine
saying they are too tired, that life gives them enough exercise. In
actuality, a daily exercise routine will give you more energy,
strength and will help you to sleep better. It also stimulates
production and release of endorphins that help you to feel euphoric
and clear minded.
Get enough rest and relaxation! Take the time
to pamper yourself and let your body have time to recover from your
daily stress. Don't depend upon chemicals to "relax you." It's a
very temporary fix if you have to use drugs etc… Yoga, meditation
and a hot bath can do wonders! Pampering and self-appreciation are
important aspects of caring for your body. Take time to care for
your personal hygiene. Massage and masturbation are a wonderful
combination for sexual healing. If your body carries sexual tension
and it becomes congested you may find yourself dealing with the
physical manifestations of no sexual release. Many holistic health
care providers say that the negative physical manifestations can
show up as vaginal yeast infections, PMS, menopausal symptoms and
other gynecological and other body system ailments. Love yourself
and explore your body with a sense of awe and gratitude. Give
yourself priority!
Pay attention to your body signals and learn to
slow down and listen to what she is trying to tell you. Take care of
the vessel in which your soul is living. By improving how you treat
yourself, what you put into your body… you can begin to become an
entirely new person. By creating a body that is healthy and
receptive you open yourself to a new life full of wonderful and
exciting possibilities. You can create your own reality!
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About The
Author
Debora Myers is the Founder and
Executive Editor of Ladyfire Magazine. Watch for our hot new
booklet to be realeased mid-December 'The Top Ten Sex Secrets
Every Woman Should Know' found at: http://www.Ladyfire.com
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