If libido enhancing drugs actually solved the
problem, then a monkey (who hasn't bathed in 3 months) could give
your female partner a libido enhancing drug and PRESTO she would get
"turned on" and have sex with the monkey.
The reality is it doesn't matter how turned on
she gets, she will not have sex with a monkey (because the monkey
has no sexual value to her).
So simple logic reveals that this applies to a
husband (or boyfriend) who has no sexual value!
If she loves him that doesn't mean that he will
"magically" have sexual value.
Could you imagine going to a car dealer to look
for a new car. You walk around on the car lot - looking around for
your dream car...
You're just browsing around, when all of sudden
this car salesman introduces himself to you:
Kevin CarSalesman: Hi sir, do you see anything
you like? You: I see a few cars I like. Kevin CarSalesman: So do you
know what kind of car you like? You: Of course! Kevin CarSalesman:
Do you like this one right here? (pointing to an old beat-up station
wagon) You: Not really. It just doesn't do it for me. Kevin
CarSalesman: Why don't you like it? You: To be honest, I can't
really put it into words. I can tell you that I don't want it. Kevin
CarSalesman: Why? It's a great car. And I want you to buy it.
(speaking in a sincere tone. And he actually appears to be a nice
guy.) You: No I'm sorry sir... Kevin CarSalesman: Could you please
buy it. Come on. Pleeeeeease... You: I don't want to... Kevin
CarSalesman: Well maybe something is wrong with you, because I have
never had any trouble selling this car to people in the past... How
about you take this herbal pill which should "make you normal" so
that you can give me your money and buy this car...
Do you see the connection that is being made?
Because this is the exact same method some guys
use when trying to have sex with their female partners.
This is pressure. It's blaming. It's not taking
responsibility. It's selfish. It's a guy with no sexual value
(obviously).
If you do not value the car, then you will not
buy it.
It is not rocket science. If a woman does not
value a guy (personally), she will not want to be with him.
If a woman does not value a guy (sexually), she
will not want to have sex with him.
Besides blaming her and not taken
responsibility is done by Low Sexual Value Guys.
These guys are actually satisfied with
pressuring her into sex using Gutless Guilt Tactics - when deep down
inside their souls, they know she hasn't been properly turned on.
She has been pressure-forced into having sex!
(in other words, she ends up having sex but she didn't physically
want to!)
Instead of holding her hands down like a
rapist, these Low Sexual Value Guys use their "minds" to hold her
hands down...
But the expression on her face is the same!
This is a harsh reality.
Besides, Guilt Pressure-Tactics and Pill
Suggestions actually make her feel horrible and unsexy! (and to me
this is a "deadly horrible idea" for any guy trying to seduce his
loving partner.)
[Seduce: The act of making her desire sex.]
Woman (talking to her friend): "Last night,
Dave made me feel inadequate and miserable. After our conversation
he made me feel completely unsexy. He was nice enough to let me
know, that he has never experienced turning on women in the past, so
it was my fault. After that, I became so turned on that we made love
for hours!"
Actually: Conversations like that don't take
place.
The frightening truth is many guys take this
approach, but it's not necessarily their fault.
I'll explain.
And no he is not a horrible beast who rapes
women. Many guys are actually concerned with fixing things and they
are willing to do whatever it takes. These guys are not
intentionally trying to be selfish. In fact they do care about their
female partners.
Let's face it, not having the sex life you
expect to have can be very frustrating, so of course trying to come
up with a solution is the logical thing to do.
Because not every guy just rolls over without a
fight.
Let's face it:
Some guys just accept set-backs in life. (This
is pathetic - in my opinion) Some guys go on a quest for solutions,
but do nothing. (This is even worse) Some guys do the same
ineffective things over and over. (This is pretty bad) Some guys go
on a quest for solutions, and nothing stops them from getting
results. (This is great.)
With that said, I still do not believe that
most guys are Scum Bags intentionally trying to make her sex life a
living hell...Because if the sex was good in the beginning, how
would you ever know that a CHANGE needs to be made? If the sex was
never that great at all, how would you ever know that you need to do
THINGS a little differently - especially if you never had trouble
turning on past lovers...
In fact, I can not tell you how many times I
heard a guy say something like:
"She hasn't been turned on and excited about
sex in 3 years. Her sex drive has diminished and she doesn't crave
it anymore. There is something biologically (or hormonally) wrong
with her."
And then he'll leave the relationship only for
her to meet a new guy who kisses her gently a few times on the back
until she explodes into a shaking orgasm.
And NO the guy didn't use magic "voodoo"
powers.
And YES this was the same woman.
And NO she didn't empty a bottle of HerbalX500
into her mouth prior to the night of passion with Mr. New
Guy...
Women like this are "seconds" away from a
sexual explosion.
If you are a guy who wants more passion in your
relationship, then increase your Sexual Value the right way.
Do not be the guy that monkies around with Pill
Suggestion Tactics.
If she doesn't want the beat up station wagon,
no pill in the galaxy is going to "magically" install that desire in
her.
